Your abuser's trauma doesn't justify them abusing you

Lessons which never backfires..

When life gives us a lesson, we must appreciate. Its not that easy to embrace the lessons which hurts you so badly but when we realize or analyse in a productive way we always end up with thanking god for blessing you. What we do is always because of consequences of the moment, how to tackle them we can only learn from lessons and no teacher, no books , not even our parents can teach us this, this can only learnt from the experience of life. There is neither limit of grief nor of happiness but its depends how we react on that situation. If we take it as a challenge of life and perform better its always endup with the compliment or badges of honor in a time. We should not take it as a “why me” either we will end up with devastated feelings.
It is the time when you have to be strong and perform gentle.

Must keep this in mind “when someone tries to bring you down, be sure you are above them ” we just not need to pay attention to them to feed their ego, un feeded ego always dies with hunger of attention. We should not react not over think about that toxic incident.

I can challenge with the passage of a time, toxic elements vapor up and we will feel great over the period.
Most importantly ” Everything happen for a reason, and the reason is always better than what we can think of”